n. the tendency to give up trying to talk about an experience because people are unable to relate to it—whether through envy or pity or simple foreignness—which allows it to drift away from the rest of your life story, until the memory itself feels out of place, almost mythical, wandering restlessly in the fog, no longer even looking for a place to land.
- its ok if ur non binary to look feminine
- its ok if ur non binary to look masculine
- presenting as ur assigned gender is ok
- non binary genders dont have specific looks
dont worry under-appreciated female character im coming to defend you
You remember too much,
my mother said to me recently.
Why hold onto all that?
And I said,
Where do I put it down?
this fucking mentality that you can’t be best friends with your significant other, that romance ruins a friendship, that BOTH FRIENDSHIP AND ROMANCE CANNOT OCCUR SIMULTANEOUSLY kills me like
that’s such a horrible, horrible and unhealthy mentality to have